“I will start going to the gym when the children go to school”, “Here we will pay for the car — then we will go travelling”, we all went through this.
Having a dream or goal is not pathological in and of itself. It motivates us, helps us to act, to be active.
The behavior of a healthy person can be described by the triad “I want – I can – I do.” The mechanism of postponed life neurosis looks like this: “I want – I can – but I do not allow myself (until a certain time)”.
The so-called “delayed life neurosis” developed when a person did not realize his plans for years, put off solving pressing issues until a certain event occurred.
Now that mortgage rates have skyrocketed, many families have decided to put off buying a house or apartment until a “better future.”
True, no one can say when it will come? Unfortunately, bank interest has increased, but prices have stabilized!
Someday, mortgage interest will go down, but then prices will go up as well. A huge number of buyers are waiting for this moment.
You can continue to wait for better times by living in a rented apartment with mold or in a basement floor without sunlight, and continue to wait. However, this is not for several weeks or months, it can drag on for several years, which cannot be returned.
Let’s live today and no matter what, let’s start realizing our dreams! The best day to start is today!
Let the first house not be perfect, but in 3–5 years, when it will be necessary to renew the mortgage, part of it will be paid. Besides, prices do not stop rising, and it will be possible to sell this house and to buy the house of your dreams.
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